The Search For Solution

The  most  wanted and sought after, thing in our universe is solutions for our innumerable problems. We face a lot of problems in our day to day life and as we search for  its solution,many a times we  fail to get a permanent solution.Sometimes we aren’t  satisfied with the  solutions we derive or get from other sources.If you are such a person,what will you do about it. The only solution ,I have learned that will help us to get going,find solution for one step each  for our multilayered  problems.Wait and watch on  the result,and step by step solve our layers of problem that unfurl on daily basis. I have seen many people get disturbed or agitated with  solutions that are unsatisfactory to them. They blame others or get worked up on the unsatisfactory solutions.They never want to try to get an amicable solutions,but a complete solution that will satisfy their egoistic self. No other intention is their for their problem solving techniques.

I am going to write  a few facts that I have seen,while going in search for solutions for myself and others with whom I deal in my everyday life.The first set of problem, I have encountered were with   parents, who had children with below average abilities to study. I used to take tuition for kids and when the final exam   come near, parents would rush to me to prod their kids  into  a study mode,some how or other. The problem about these kids  are,they   are least bothered about studies,but most bothered about extra curricular activities,which their parents detest.Once the final exam  are near, their parents search for a tuition teacher who they think  could solve their hassle  about their children studies,which their children’s class teacher has failed during the entire year.  After neglecting studies for the entire year,these children and their parents view me as a solution for their kids  learning disability. Many a times I have tried to make  these hapless parents  be aware of their children’s inability to study and  as a solution to opt for  guidance of a counselor,  to make the children cope with their studies.Most of the time they are heart broken when I refuse to become  a solution for their children’s scholastic development.  When I ask them to get children interested in the subject they are good and for others to encourage them to get a pass mark,they feel very disappointed. This is one of problems for which I have never got a satisfactory solution. Year after year I am trying to solve this problem,using various methods,but still I haven’t evolved a complete solution  to tackle this everyday problem of my job.I have evolved many ways that can bring an average satisfaction to the parents but in this process I kill many talents and skills that is  abundantly present in them to become a singer,artist or a sculptor.

There are times I feel guilty of killing talents rather than nurturing them. I solve my problem,by making them conform rather than create a different pattern that is special and giving happiness to their existence on this planet.I plead gullibility for this crime to our future generation.Instead making him pass with average mark in subjects,if I had ability  and courage,to make them creative and adventurous without  being dubbed as a bad teacher,I would have boasted of getting a permanent and perfect solution. Then I would have  published a book titled,Complete Solutions For All Problems. Wait for it,till then I will be writing Blogs of how I planned and failed.

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Just You and Me

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by Belinda Brady

Lily watched her husband Brett in silence. He was not aware she was there, but that’s how she wanted it. She had been watching him since it happened the day before. Watching to see how he was handling the news. Watching to see if he was missing her. Watching to see if she should stay or go. She needed to see that he would be fine on his own.

Lily was confused as she watched her husband prepare a cheese platter rather joyfully, glass of red on the side and soft music in the background. He was not meant to be acting this way, was he? Where were the tears or the screams of disbelief? Where was the grief? He almost seemed happy? Lily heard the doorbell and hung back out of sight as Brett went to answer it. On the other side was Sam, Brett’s co-worker and…

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The Downward Spiral Of Christianity

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The Gypsy

He is a wanderer,and loves everybody

But nobody likes him,because he is scary body,

with no home or hearth and is considered as a stray body,

when we are homeless jobless nobody,

called a thief ,a thug and a worthless nobody

I weep for all homeless nation less nobody’s

When we close our eyes to nobody in dire need,

who will care for us when we are nobody

 

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Best Innovative Books To Read

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Crumb

via Daily Prompt: Crumb is a very small piece left over after a meal or snack. It may be a piece of bread or biscuit. So nobody cared about it.But a little ant cared about  the small crumb.He called his friend and the invitation was extended to friend’s friend. They all came in groups and armies and had a feast on the crumbs on the floor.So by evening when I came back from work,my whole dining room was full of small red ants. Small biting ants,because I was careless in the morning rush to office to pick the crumbs and to drop it in the waste basket.So  that forced me to clean the room and table and then mop it with soap and dettol.For a silly careless mistake from my part,I had to do double amount of cleaning. The ants are never lazy,even though I was and no small crumb is too tiny for them to discard. So clean your mess before you start out.A crumb can cause you a lot of hard work.

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MISMATCHED

Life has a lot of mismatching that is worth watching.The first  sphere of mismatch is found  in relationship . This may be marriage or two people in a friendship  when it is marriage,it give rise to various humor situation that is really hilarious.When two couples are perfect mismatch,they will be suffering each other,but will produce a lot of humor situation  .There is a married friend of mine who’s husband loves to eat raw mango with salt and chili.One day while I visited them,I saw my friend, who is the wife fuming like a chimney pot,  while her husband  was enjoying  raw mango with salt  and red chill combination with great elan. She was complaining bitterly that  his  habit of eating of raw mango set her teeth  on edge. While her husband enjoyed his sumptuous crunchy raw mango bits,she boiled over with  gritted teeth. The comic effect of this outcome made me amused,even though I felt bad for my friend. Another hilarious situation was my father who used to forget things in his senior days.So when he had a fight with my mother over silly matters.  As a result of this, he was not on talking terms with her. So when he misplace things like his specs or reading material, he will search the whole place, especially for his misplaced specs. The spectacles will be safely resting  in his shirt’s pocket, and my mother  will be enjoying the same with a mischievous twinkle in his eyes. Finally with a deflated ego,he will ask her to find it for him,then my mother will calmly reply to look inside his pocket. We used to laugh our head off at this comic instance of our parents old age antics. Continue reading

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